O diálogo é uma prática, sabia?

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O diálogo é uma prática, sabia?

Temos tentado dia após dia cumprir com a prática do diálogo em nossa casa, pois acreditamos que assim, estaremos nos conectando ainda mais e mostrando ao Samuel, nosso filho de 4 anos, que o que ele pensa, acha e acredita, pode ser expresso livremente em palavras.

Esta prática do diálogo é empregada no nosso dia a dia, ou seja, na descrição da rotina, no momento dos combinados, em alguma situação desafiadora por parte do Samuel, por exemplo. É fácil? Não, nenhum pouco! Na verdade, é um aprendizado que precisamos colocar de fato em prática.

Como vim de uma criação que a base era a punição, gritos e xingamentos, e infelizmente me pego querendo reproduzir comportamentos já vivenciados, mas que condeno, e é por isso que preciso de autocuidado, para que meus pensamentos não me ataquem me enchendo de culpa, então,  tento a cada dia me refazer afim de melhorar, e para isso procuro ferramentas que me ajudam a ter uma boa convivência com a nossa família e com as pessoas que nos rodeiam.

Certa vez estávamos almoçando, quando senti vários pontinhos brancos, grudados no meu cabelo e quando olho para o lado, o meu filho Samuel, 4 anos, estava com uma cara de sapeca me olhando e esperando minha reação. Eu disse: – Por que você jogou o arroz no cabelo da mamãe Samuel? Ele me respondeu: – Eu não joguei mamãe, eu só balancei para ele sair da minha mão, mas aí caiu em você. (Era arroz japonês, mais grudadinho). Aí eu disse: – Qual outra maneira de tirar o arroz grudado da sua mão, você pensou em algo? Ele disse que sim, mostrando com o dedinho tentando o apoio do prato, mas sem sucesso, então disse a ele que eu podia ajudá-lo, então tirei os grãos grudados de sua mãozinha.

Por que quis trazer esta situação? Pelo simples fato de apresentar a  minha nova reação, pois em outros momentos eu já teria gritado assim: – Por que você jogou o arroz em mim? Comida é para comer e não para jogar! E com esta minha fala, já estaria aplicando um julgamento na situação, sem ao menos ter olhado o outro lado, logo, o Samuel chateado gritaria comigo dizendo que não jogou, mas aí ficaríamos naquela discussão, onde todos sairíamos feridos com as palavras e a criança, aprenderia ainda mais que as situações de questionamentos ou não, deverão ser sempre resolvidas com a gritaria e o mais forte, o adulto, sempre vence e manda!

Então, preferimos trilhar o caminho do diálogo, ensinando ao Samuel que todas as situações se resolvem através da comunicação, empatia, gestos generosos com o outro e sempre de maneira amorosa, de modo que possamos sentir um ambiente de respeito, equilibrado, harmônico e cheio de amor, aliás, ser compassivo e generoso foi um ensinamento deixado por Jesus, que amorosamente lidou com seus discípulos em diversas situações.

*Gostou do artigo? Que tal compartilhar com amigos, pais e mães e familiares. E me conte nos comentários, como tem sido na sua casa, momentos semelhantes a estes?

Beth Takeda
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